Okay, assuming I have a relatively nonjudgemental audience, I have a question. If you have a friend that has a ghost in her house, and she is seemingly unaware of it's presence, should you tell her? My friend has no idea that I have a sensitivity, and also seems oblivious to the elderly female entity in her house. The spirit is positive, she died in lonliness and is attracted to my friend's family, the bond they share. Should I tell her or leave well enough alone?
Ask your friend whether she believes in spirits and gauge her feelings on the area. If you get a positive response from her, tell her about it. If she doesnt believe then leave well enough alone and let it be your little secret.
Post by kathyghosthunter on Apr 21, 2009 3:13:48 GMT -6
What would you accomplish by telling your friend that she has a spirit in her home? If she believes you it may make her upset and want the spirit removed. Removed to where? Unless you are able to help the spirit cross over you’re not helping it. Would you evict this spirit to wonder around looking for a new place to live?
Your friend is not aware of the spirit so there for no harm is being done.
There are a number of people who have spirits in their home and is not aware of them. They coexist peacefully and both are happy. This elderly person may this of your friends’ family as her family and may protect them from harm.
I would suggest leaving them alone unless your friend tells you of some strange things going on.
I agree also if my friend told me that there was a spirit in my house i would feel self-conscious about the things i do, or start thinking "what if i just walked into it?" or "omg!! did i sit on her?", "did she want to watch that show?", or "what if while im taking a shower she's also in there? omg! why did my friend have to tell me??!! i want her OUT!!" Ya telling your friend wouldn't be so good. just ask your friend on her point of view and just casually say that you read that someone wanted advice and you wanted to hear what she would say and tell her that that person's friend has a spirit in their house and that they didn't know wheather to tell them or not. If she says no then don't tell her if she says yes then tell her.
frankly, if you think it will freak your friend out, leave well enough alone. if not, then tell her. she might want to know. do strange things happen in her house? if so, she might want an answer, to why these things are happening.