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[mariumknight03]

What happens to the ghost that don't pass over?

Do they Haunt others closer to them?

For instance, my best friends grandmother died but the thing is.. am not sure if am right, but she maybe not have passed over; when she was alive.. (my best friends grandmother) her daughter (my bestfriends mom)... had never forgave her mother, for not being a mother ( They never had that communication that mothers/ daugthers have).. and am sure; she has/ had felt alot of grief because of it.

could it be shes trying to communicate with me.. as a way of saying she sorry for not being there, and she needs you to forgive her, in order for her to heal and move ahead... , that way she can pass on and finally rest in peace.

I dont know?
-Any opinions?

[ksmc2000]

It sounds like a job for Jennifer Love Hewitt to solve.

[knappyknapp]

god another one of these morons that gots to make fun of people who needs help yes i would say probaly try that if that dont work then idk lol ask someone who has more experience then me but i would say try forgiving her if u really do forgive her then reach out and tell her.

[Carrie]

well people stay on earth long after they pass away. sometimes they have unfinished business. other times its because they kill themselves and they have to stay on earth until its they're time to actually pass away. but in this case your friends grandmother hasn't gone to 'the other side' because she has unfinished business. maybe she wants to tell you guys that she is sorry. or that she repents of how she acted in her life and she wants forgiveness. if that so then try reaching out and tell her she is forgiven. but don't be like "ok i forgive u! go to the light now!" i don't think that will work. your friends mom has to actually believe and feel it that she can forgive her mother.
well i hope that helps! if not just go see john edward cross country. he's pretty good from what i've seen.

[Jason Hawes]

Oct 16, 2009 1:07:43 GMT -6 ksmc2000 said:

It sounds like a job for Jennifer Love Hewitt to solve.

Smart Ass Much?

[Jason Hawes]

I agree with Carrie, All-knowing Goddess of Advice lol.

[Carrie]

bahahaha thanks jason.

[BHPI Mark]

Let's be honest folks...no one really knows the answer to this and this is why there are those out here who are serious about researching the paranormal. In this instance, I see this as nothing more than family dynamics, and guilt that the daughter never had a chance to reconcile with her mother. Her emotions are keeping the hurt open. Tell her to let it go and move on. And, since you are close to the family you are feeling the emotional stress. This is nothing more than an emotionally stressed family. You have given no proof of anything more.

[Jason Hawes]

Unclebuck again makes a good point. I see your argument, and it should be looked into further. Whether it is or not could make no real difference, but it is recommended from me.

[darkone]

im with you 100% unclebuck.. this forum is filled with people that KNOW EVERYTHING!!!! most of them are still in there teens and really know nothing at all.. they just reply to posts to get a higher ranking and well there kids and have nothing else to do.. it is nice to see more people that agree that no one knows exactly for sure why these things happen but we all work together to try and get answers and learn more..

[Mystery]

There are many reason why spirits remain earthbound, if they do. It could be that they have unfinished business, are afraid to move on, etc. Maybe it would be helpful if you were able to meet with a Clairvoyant and see if they can help. Good luck

[petervenkman]

It really depends on what type of spirit or energy it is. In theory it could just be the energy of this person stuck on repeat to put it simply. If its an intelligent manifestation you could be rite. Unfortunately the only way to know the answer to this is to pass on.

[Carrie]

-darkone, i don't say this stuff just cause i "know everything", my dad teaches me this cause his dad had taught him that stuff. and so the limited knowledge that i know of the paranormal i try and share it. but i also have done research and i take others peoples knowledge too. i also expand my thoughts so, although it may seem i "know alot" doesn't mean i know much. and its just MY opinion of how i see things. and no i don't post comments just to get higher ranking. its cause i have conversations with people on here. or i have looked up on past topics and have comment on them. and don't assume just because i am still a teenager means that i am dumb or dim witted. yes my brain is still developing but that doesn't mean that i can still put my knowledge. whether it be alot or little knowledge into these forums. and as many people have said we are all here to help each other out.

[eidolonshade]

I agree with a lot of you and those of you who are "kidding" rudely go away no one needs to hear your crap, yes i'm talking to you Darkone! Mariumknight03 in my opinion pull out a tape recorder with your friends mother and have her ask questions in different rooms of their house. Ask her to speak honestly and if she doesn't want to she doesn't have to share it with any one but she should talk to her mother ask questions and so one maybe even go to her grave. She may just be there to watch over her daughter and grandchildren and so on, you never know.

[kim1988]

that it is precisely true that we do not know.

but I believe it may have different causes, there are plenty of things that can occur as a mother, grandmother, sister and more. but who says it'll actually be that person, maybe it's something bad, what she tried to imitate. and to hurt you, physical or spiritual, and the rest of your life brings disaster.

greets i agree with ahoter people