Post by Carrie on Sept 25, 2012 12:46:00 GMT -6
I haven't been on here in a longggg time. I stopped researching the paranormal for quite some time but i'm always alert about them. My grandmother passed away this year. Sometime in mid April. She lived in Chile all her life and my mom was with her from January til March, and then my brother went and visited her in the beginning of April. A week after he left she passed away.
Some background history on my grandmother and I. I never really knew her very well. We were never a big part of each others lives and she never liked my dad. She always said she raised my mother to take care of her. Anyways i always had a feeling she didn't love me. And she never showed signs of a good grandmother like my dads mom had shown me. So when she died I didn't show much expression. And when i did cry, i cried for my mom and brother because they were trying to be strong.
Well some months pass and I have a dream of her. It was back in mid-June when i had a dream of her. I don't remember very well what the setting was but i remember introducing her to someone (i don't remember who) and i would say "this is my grandmother" and she would respond coldly "no, i am NOT your grandmother." and we would start arguing over it. Finally after a while of us going back and forth saying the same thing i said "Look you are my grandmother whether we both like it or not, so we're both going to have to deal with it." and she replied saying "yes, i guess you're right." and she looked like she was defeated. And then i woke up.
In August, a couple days after my birthday i was getting ready for bed with my dog Pandora, we both sleep together on my bed, and just as i turn off the lights about 30 seconds later Pandora starts barking. I turn on the light and see her mane was standing in attack mode. The whole time she was starring at a spot. As if a human was standing there. She wasn't staring out into space but at a certain spot. I didn't do anything and i just said "hello?" And Pandora's head moved to the right like she was following their every move. Still barking every 4 seconds. after about 15 seconds i say "Grandmother? Is that you?" (in spanish) and Pandora stops barking. and lays back down immediately as if nothing happened.
I don't know if she was coming to check up on me or maybe try and get into my dream again and talk with me. (My moms side of the family tend to talk to my mom in her dreams.) But i have a feeling that, that was her coming to say goodbye to me. Either way I wasn't scared like i normally would have been. I felt a sense of calmness and went and got my mom (woke her up) and told her what happened.
What does everyone else think of this?
Some background history on my grandmother and I. I never really knew her very well. We were never a big part of each others lives and she never liked my dad. She always said she raised my mother to take care of her. Anyways i always had a feeling she didn't love me. And she never showed signs of a good grandmother like my dads mom had shown me. So when she died I didn't show much expression. And when i did cry, i cried for my mom and brother because they were trying to be strong.
Well some months pass and I have a dream of her. It was back in mid-June when i had a dream of her. I don't remember very well what the setting was but i remember introducing her to someone (i don't remember who) and i would say "this is my grandmother" and she would respond coldly "no, i am NOT your grandmother." and we would start arguing over it. Finally after a while of us going back and forth saying the same thing i said "Look you are my grandmother whether we both like it or not, so we're both going to have to deal with it." and she replied saying "yes, i guess you're right." and she looked like she was defeated. And then i woke up.
In August, a couple days after my birthday i was getting ready for bed with my dog Pandora, we both sleep together on my bed, and just as i turn off the lights about 30 seconds later Pandora starts barking. I turn on the light and see her mane was standing in attack mode. The whole time she was starring at a spot. As if a human was standing there. She wasn't staring out into space but at a certain spot. I didn't do anything and i just said "hello?" And Pandora's head moved to the right like she was following their every move. Still barking every 4 seconds. after about 15 seconds i say "Grandmother? Is that you?" (in spanish) and Pandora stops barking. and lays back down immediately as if nothing happened.
I don't know if she was coming to check up on me or maybe try and get into my dream again and talk with me. (My moms side of the family tend to talk to my mom in her dreams.) But i have a feeling that, that was her coming to say goodbye to me. Either way I wasn't scared like i normally would have been. I felt a sense of calmness and went and got my mom (woke her up) and told her what happened.
What does everyone else think of this?